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Support / advice
On these pages you’ll find links
to organisations that may be able to give
support or advice on matters
relating to family contact. These links are provided for information only.
We do not endorse these sites nor can we accept any liability over their
content. If you have an urgent problem and want to contact our helpline,
calls are charged at cheap national rates.
HELP IS AT HAND
The effects of separation and divorce are
intense to say the least, even more so where children are involved. As
such we at the NSCFC are only to well aware of the emotional impact this
plays in the lives of parents, grandparents and extended family members.
Hence please rest assured that we are here for you and above all we truly
understand and care. As such we have added the following links for your
use, whilst at the same time extending a warm welcome should you wish to
use our dedicated helpline. With your best interest in mind and that of
others we implore that you do nothing in the heat of the moment to devalue
your character with either the police, family or criminal courts.
Youth Support
The NSCFC regrets that it cannot deal with calls
from young people, but if you are a young person who needs to talk to
someone, then The National Youth Advocacy Service listed on the
next page may be able to
help.
Civil Matters
The County Court, often referred to as the 'Small
Claims Court' deals with civil matters, such as claims for debt
repayment, including enforcing court orders and return of goods bought on
credit, and also housing disputes, including mortgage and council rent
arrears and re-possession. Some county courts also deal with divorce and
family applications.
One Parent Families Scotland
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has been working on behalf of lone parents and their families since
1944.
We are a national voluntary organisation, registered as a charity.
Our members include individual lone parents, various organisations
working with lone parents and others who just simply want to support
the cause of lone parents.
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A Father's Love Denied
But NEVER Forgotten
Love Dad xxxx
'Merry Xmas to you 07'
'Happy 16th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 07'
'Happy Easter to you 07'
'Merry Xmas to you 06'
'Happy 15th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 06'
'Happy Easter to you 06'
'Merry Xmas to you 05'
'Happy 14th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 05'
'Happy Easter to you 05'
'Merry Xmas to you 04'
'Happy 13th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 04'
'Happy Easter to you 04'
'Merry Xmas to you 03'
'Happy 12th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 03'
'Happy Easter to you 03'
'Merry Xmas to you 02'
'Happy 11th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 02'
'Happy Easter to you 02'
'Merry Xmas to you 01'
'Happy 10th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 01'
'Happy Easter to you 01'
'Merry Xmas to you 2000'
'Happy 9th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 2000'
'Happy Easter to you 2000'
'Merry Xmas to you 99'
'Happy 8th Birthday My Beloved Son for Sep 99'
'Happy Easter to you 99'
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Talk to FRANK
Drugs destroy lives. Knowing what
others have gone through can help you deal with your situation.
> www.talktofrank.com |
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Relate
Relationship counselling and
mediation
> www.relate.org.uk |
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Papers by Dr Ludwig Lowenstein
>www.Parental-alienation.info |
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Stephen Ashley
Experienced UK registered psychotherapist,
together we can work to identify, understand and eliminate those
issues that stop you achieving happiness and fulfilment.
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Ondivorce
Help lines, discussion
boards
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www.ondivorce.co.uk |
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Honor Broxap
International Clairvoyant, Psychic Medium & DIP Clinical
Hypnotherapist.
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www.HonorBroxap.co.uk |
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You and the courts
You and the Courts is a new area of the Court
Service website. The section provides links to information designed
to help you with some of the most common reasons for coming to
court. The information provided can only give you a general idea of
what is likely to happen. It cannot explain everything about court
rules and procedures.
> www.courtservice.gov.uk |
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Recently Divorced, Separated or bereaved?
WifesGone.com offers a wealth of free information and advice as
well as an active support community to help you through difficult
times.
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www.wifesgone.com |
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CHILD
PROTECTION
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The NSCFC strongly suggests that if you know of, or suspect ANY form
of CHILD ABUSE Paedophilia or misuse of children (be they yours or
anyone else's) you should without delay make contact with the child
protection unit which should be based at your local police station.
THERE IS
NO
EXCUSE FOR COMPLACENCY!
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We need your help... The NSCFC needs help
in expanding its work. We have an advice line, we carry out research
into issues related to child welfare after separation and divorce,
and we offer help in getting legal advice. But we depend on
voluntary contributions to continue this work. By offering a
donation or sponsoring us you could help to ease the distress of a
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The National Society
for Children and Family Contact would like it to be known throughout
the UK
that it's confidential
helpline is now open to men who are suffering as a result of
psychological abuse or physical domestic
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The number to call is
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Bereavement Without End-A Plea From
Alienated Parents Everywhere
The death of a child is
indisputably one of the most incredibly horrible tragedies one can
imagine. Whether by sudden accidental circumstance, or by a more lengthy
cause as in illness, the loss of a child is undeniably painful to
experience. Painful to the parents, parents to the family, and painful
to anyone related to the child.
Never knowing the laughter of that child again or the tears, the joys
and the accomplishments is a pain no parent should ever have to endure,
and yet it happens. No one is to blame. It just happens. Imagine the
same pain and the same sense of loss, with one exception-the parent is
very much aware that the child is alive.
The effects of Parental Alienation Syndrome are very similar to the loss
of a child due to accident or illness. For the parent who has been
alienated from their child, the bereavement does not end. How do we
know? Each alienated parent separately, and all of us collectively have
lived with both the cause and the effect of Parental Alienation for
countless years. Like a terminally fatal childhood disease, Parental
Alienation rips the innocent child from your arms slowly. You witness
the suffering. You witness the effects. You can feel the impending doom
is inevitable, but you are powerless to do anything about it. You try
remedy after remedy hoping that one will finally rid your child of the
"disease". You work like a person possessed in order to finance the
efforts, and when the final blow comes, it is emotionally devastating.
You question yourself. You blame yourself for the loss. You tell
yourself you should have done more. The very sad part of the story is it
is not unique. There are hundreds of thousands of children and parents
affected by PAS.
We beg of those with the power to make people aware of this
devastatingly horrible phenomenon, to please do all they can to educate
people on its effects, and to change the laws to protect the innocence
of the children involved. Only then can we truly hope to keep children
safe from the harmful side effects that are inherent with Parental
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